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GENUINE, SINCERE, GROUNDED;Love people--A good-hearted/easy-going/intelligent/sensitive guy here.I'm HONEST, w/INTEGRITY--Secure in who I am.Miss having someone to share life with.I've grown thru healing of loss;now stronger, more resilient, & compassionate--Spirit is solid.Can provide "Shelter from the Storm", but sometimes need it as well."We come to love not by finding a perfect person, but by learning to cherish an imperfect person perfectly."(Pics=me, Now 35lbs less).

Leo

Stocky

5' 8 (1.73 m)

Hazel

Caucasian

Widowed

No

No

Smile

Wouldn't Even Think About It

Dark Blonde

Dog

Yes

Some University

Retired

Art / Music / Literature

Artist/Videographer/Horticulturist.

Less Than $14,999USD

Alone, With Pet(s)

Friends Come Over Occasionally

No

Yes - One Or Two

Quiet One

Reserved, Observant, Friendly, Outgoing

Exercising, Arts & Crafts, Learning, Music, Tv, Movies, Internet, Family, Dining, Photography, Theater, Travel, Cooking, Gardening, Camping, Computers

Hanging Out With Friends, Staying At Home, Trying New Things, The Movies, Relaxing, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum

Being with that special someone in a quiet place, perhaps a cozy restaurant/coffeehouse/bar; talking & getting to know each other;more quiet talk on a long walk in the peaceful outdoors. We take it from there, continuing the evening as it unfolds (Are we interested in each other--how so--as Friends, for sex, or more?) We follow our hearts wherever they go--at the very least (if we're on the same page), we make arrangements to see each other again really soon! (Sigh...)

Once again gettin a deep down dirty Freak on with the right (Uncut?)Brutha--our imaginations as the only limit, within agreed bounds. It's been a long time--nearly celibate since partner passed in '99. Sex is best with mind, heart, soul, trust, lust, & LOVE! Condoms a must for fucking, all else open for exploration. I like close sexual/emotional companionship with a special man, someone who is HONEST, proud of who he is, standing up for what he believes in, and having INTEGRITY, as I do. There's much more to me than the above, of course--wanna know, just ask & I'll be real with you, please do the same for me.

Friendly, Cool, Obscure

Spiritual But Not Religious

Never

Very Liberal

To actually pull together all my notes, photos, documents, audio/video recordings, newsclippings, etc. to write a screenplay based on a life-changing experience I survived--hoping to help younger people struggling with their sexuality by providing them with hope, courage, self-esteem & a reason to believe they CAN overcome overwhelming odds & SUCCEED as themselves--standing Proud as Who They Are, without compromise. ALSO, to continue making a positive difference in the lives of others, to live Life to its fullest, with as few regrets as possible, and to NEVER STOP LEARNING!

Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly, Obscure

News, Documentaries, Dramas, Movies

Action, Science Fiction, Drama, Horror, Thriller

Pop, Blues, Jazz, Soul, Folk

News, Biography, Fantasy, Fiction, History, Home & Garden, Nature, Philosophy, Reference, Science, Science Fiction

Quiet, intimate time together, like stopping to rest & reflect while Being Still in the cathedral of Nature's Peace;Fun times too!--Sharing great meals (I LOVE Seafood/Shellfish)I can throw down some really mean eats when there's someone to share it with! Daytrips;Museums/Live Theater & Concerts/Botanic Gardens;(Travel when affordable);I have a wide range of interests--especially trying new things we've never done before--if it's interesting, non-lethal, & legal, I'll probably try it--you name it.

Intelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Great Skills, Empathy, Sensitivity, Boldness, Spontaneity, Wit, Thoughtfullness

Looking for Friendship 1st, but also a Man open 2 the possibility of a committed, monogamous LTR.Hope 2 meet someone experienced & confident enough 2 both give & receive unconditional Love (I've been there & can do this). I've been HIV Poz since '87--always healthy 4 all these years(T-cell counts in normal range with undetectable viral load). Would like to meet either another Poz man, or at least someone not afraid of safe sex within a relationahip AS A (Potential) SOULMATE! A guy who allows me 2 be me as I do the same 4 him--both of us sometimes needing our space, yet loving our time together.A man TRUSTWORTHY as I am, who knows from experience & believes N the life-stabilizing value of monogamy. Someone ALIVE with curiosity, dreams & goals, who wants another 2 spend the rest of his life with, growing OLDER together--not just OLD! I believe that Friendship, sex, & time 4 a shared history together comes B4 committment. It's scary, but I'm willing to reach 4 it & take the risks aga

Friend, Date, Intimate, Committed